Many believe that they will meet five soulmates in their lifetime.
It can be daunting to think so. When I first read about this fact, I started to panic.
What do you mean five soulmates?
Does that mean that my current relationship wonāt last?
Do I still have three other people that I meet before I finally meet the one?
That relationship didnāt last, but that wasnāt the point I was getting at.
When we say the word āsoulmateā, we often think of romantic love, but your best friend can be your soulmate too.Ā
I knew this because my best friend and I were so in sync.
We had the same likes & dislikes. We had an intense soulful connection that we hadnāt had with anyone else in that time.
Some soulmates stay, some leave, some give us the worldās greatest treasure, while some might leave us with a big scar.
Either way, each soulmate teaches us a valuable lesson we need to grow.Ā
Here are the five soulmates I have encountered in my lifetime.
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1. Friendship SoulmateĀ
Theyāre that one person who you have an amazing connection with.Ā
Theyāre the friend available at 3 am, they finish your sentences, and even buy you food before you even realize youāre hungry.Ā
They get you in a way that no one else does.
These are platonic relationships, but the easiest and drama-free one to be in.Ā
And theyāre the ones here to stay.
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2. The Wrecking Ball SoulmateĀ
Just like the Miley Cyrus song, they came in like a wrecking ball.
TheyĀ are a force to be reckoned with and you couldnāt stop staring at them, in awe of who they are.
But like all wrecking balls, they cause some damage to your life and esteem, leaving you no other choice than having to rebuild yourself.
Perhaps the best lesson this type of soulmate could give us is an opportunity to find ourselves.
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3. The Lover/Affair SoulmateĀ
Spoiler alert:Ā these kinds of soulmates donāt stay in your life for too long, but they leave you with beautiful memories.
Theyāre either your first love, someone you met while you were already in a relationship, or simply someone you had an exciting relationship with.
This kind of relationship takes time to build, and sometimes you form a connection with them out of nowhere.
And even after the romantic equation fades away from your relationship, the soul connection with them never fades away.
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4. Complete Stranger SoulmateĀ
Have you ever looked at a stranger and had this odd familiar feeling - as if youāve known them before in this life or the previous one?
You feel like you know them from somewhere, but canāt place them from where.
Either way, being with them feels like picking things where you left them off from. It feels natural - more natural than itās been with any friend youāve had.
They arrive exactly when you need them, and validate the emotion youāre currently going through.
You know deep down that they were meant to enter your life and give you what you needed to move forward.
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5. Divine Love Soulmate
This is the ultimate soulmate we dream of having, and if weāre lucky, weāll get to spend the rest of our lives with them.
Itās the strongest connection youāll feel with anyone. They feel familiar, intense, and everything you can dream of.
How many of these soulmates have you encountered in your lifetime?
Do you want to add any to this list?
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ABOUT OUR STAR AUTHORĀ
Skye Cardoz lives in Mumbai, India with her family and pet plants.
She loves to write articles, stories, and poems, mostly on love and mental-health.
She loves exploring topics on love and its elements (whether it be heartbreak or little wins) throughout her work.Ā
Along with an article published in thought catalog and a self-published short story on Kindle, Skye is also the founder ofĀ Kind Hearts Brigade, a kindness based initiative to inspire goodness in the world!Ā Ā